In an age of instant messages, texts and tweets with no salutations, it is easy to lose track of our common courtesy. I’m as guilty of this as anyone, but I recently had a reminder of the power of good manners.
In a recent business class, our instructor had a fascinating amount of information on how the Ritz Carlton Hotels all over the world train their staff, including the small trifold paper carried by staff members reminding them of the rules. A warm greeting, assistance with a smile, and a fond farewell are all required.
Employees at the hotel are required to address everyone as “Madam or Sir” and have sample phrases such as, “It would be my pleasure to assist you.” The impression is that whether you are the Princess of Genovia or a businessman attending a convention or Joe Plumber, as soon as you step through their door, you become royalty in the world of the Ritz.
Manners and mannerisms can cast a character so quickly. As I work on my current project, I'm trying to remember the quiet courtesy of the Korean people. It is a challenge in my current fast paced, fast tracked communication world. But its important to the feel of the story to pay attention to the manners of the people.
How do good or bad manners play into your characters or stories?
